Should people be friends before lovers?

July 1998
Jet;07/20/98, Vol. 94 Issue 8, p14
Questions whether individuals should be friends before they enter into intimate relationships. Views of Vesta Callender, a psychotherapist who practices in New York City; Statements from Doctor Larry Davis, professor of social work and psychology at Washington University; Importance of individuals establishing what they want out of relationships.


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