The Extra Mile

June 2011
Guideposts;Jun2011, Vol. 66 Issue 4, p43
The author discusses his relationships with his children and his father. He narrates his experiences of attending activities of his children, where he was often the lone parent. He says that he sometimes feels that he has been trying too hard to be a good father. He also narrates how he felt happy when his father had been there at every mile for him at a 40-mile canoe journey, just waving without giving any instructions. He comments that he want to assure his children that he is with them.


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