Personal COACH

Esonis, Sharon S.
January 2010
Personal Excellence Essentials;Jan2010, Vol. 15 Issue 1, p15
The article discusses why self-pity can lead to pain, disappointment and ineffectiveness and urges people who see themselves play the role of victims to turn away from it and move on.


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