'You'll be a better doctor for this one day.'

Wood, William
October 2008
Hem/Onc Today;10/25/2008, Vol. 9 Issue 19, p46
The article presents a physician's reflection on his personal loss, his patient's death and the patient's family suffering. He talks about an overwhelming and familiar deep and lonely ache he felt after learning that his 29-year-old patient died. He recounts his conversation with a palliative care geriatrician who was one of his mentors in medical school.


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