Pride or Prejudice: When is a compliment not a compliment? One family struggles to find the answer

Lambe, Marybeth
September 1999
Mothering;Sep/Oct99, Issue 96, p74
Features the author's adopted children in the United States. Struggle to find an answer on whether a compliment for her adopted children is a form of racism; Adopted children's reactions to praise; Natural children's reaction to lack of attention.


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