Why it's hard to say no- and how to anyway

November 2005
Library Mosaics;Nov/Dec2005, Vol. 16 Issue 6, p22
Academic Journal
This article provides reasons on why it is hard to say no to a request. Some people have a great sense of duty and obligation. They feel that they have to say yes to almost anything they are asked to do. Furthermore, other people just want everyone to like them, and they are afraid that if they say no they might cause the person making the request to reject them. In addition, some people are afraid that they will miss out on a big opportunity if they say no to something.


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